I wrote this poem for a dear friend several years ago. As I reflect on friendships lost, I am ever ready to use this poem as a call for us to pause and validate those that are important in our lives. Last year this time, I had a dear friend, Avis, whom I hadn’t thought for a second wouldn’t be here this time of year. Unfortunately, we lost her nine months ago. I would encourage you not to lose sight of the here and now with those cared about and loved. Life seems to become more unpredictable and moves so quickly. Have a safe and blessed holiday, and remember our greatest currency is time. Let’s use it wisely and include those that add meaning to your life.
My Friend
Have I forgotten to tell you, my friend?
How your deeds of kindness color my world?
When the only thing I could see was the midnight of my life;
Have I forgotten to tell you, my friend?
How your outstretched hands held me back from the jaws of decay?
Sometimes with me, and for me, you’d prayed.
Have I forgotten to tell you, my friend?
You’ve illuminated some of my darkest moments,
With your words of encouragement, seasoned with wisdom and love
Have I forgotten to tell you, my friend?
You’ve been a source of comfort in my times of need
When I was about to succumb to a crisis by which my life impaled
Your support and belief in me pushed me onward to personal elevation
Have I forgotten to tell you, my friend?
Your friendship I value, our association I treasure
Thanks for rescuing me from a place of self-pity
A trail in life, which robs the soul and suffocates the spirit,
My friend, you’re the best, and I’m forever
Grateful to have you as a friend, “my friend!”
Marjorie Delores
Soul Expression 